Men Are Sharing The Questions They Secretly Wish They Could Ask Women

by · BuzzFeed

Just like we women often wonder what exactly goes on in a guy's mind, men wonder the same thing about us. So when Reddit user, -spirits- asked: "Gentlemen: If a woman couldn't lie, what questions would you ask her?" — the questions were about everything from sex to why they want to be a mother. Here are some of them:

Uwe Krejci / Getty Images

Note: These responses have been edited for length and/or clarity.

1. "How true is it when you say, 'I don’t do this for men,' referring to things like wearing revealing clothes, makeup, or posting on social media for likes?"

Iampoorghini

2. "How many times have you cheated or thought about cheating?"

Westend61 / Getty Images/Westend61

CursedSnowman5000

3. "I would ask them what their favorite of each sense is. Like taste, touch, sight, sound, and a little explanation. I think that would be interesting."

Ruminations0

4. "Why did you choose me? What do you wish I did? Where do you want to eat?"

adultdaycare81

5. "Why is it that the wardrobe is full of clothes and yet they always have NOTHING to wear when going out?"

Cokada / Getty Images

sir_cas

6. "How much of being nice is just fake behavior? I sometimes feel like the way some women treat others is simply self-serving or for an audience and not truly genuine."

Carpathicus

7. "Women have given men an exhaustive list of places they don't want to be approached. Can y'all give us a list of places where you do want to be approached?"

Raphye Alexius / Getty Images/Image Source

SPKEN

8. "Does size matter?"

2pleasureu

9. "Do you love me or what I do for you? Which is the reason you choose me?"

Ok_Journalist_2289

10. "If you're very sexual at the start of the relationship, and you understand that sex is important when dating, why do you think it's okay to stop being as sexual once you 'have him'?"

Studio4 / Getty Images

SizeDistinct1616

11. "What will make you happy?"

No-Professor-6945

12. "Is your partner happy? What would you realistically sacrifice to make your partner happy?"

GideonZotero

13. "Why do you want to have kids?"

D3sign / Getty Images

imasensation

14. "As a lover, what can I improve to be more attractive to you and to improve your orgasm experience?"

el_lonestar_goat

15. "Why do you judge other women so harshly? Especially when it comes to raising children."

Lanceth115

16. "What makes you feel unhappy?"

Mavocado / Getty Images

Positive_Judgment581

17. "What do you actually want in a man? What turns you on? How do you really want to be perceived by men? I feel like so much of this is sugarcoated in trying to appear nice or ‘modern’ because what women say they want and what they actually go for often tend to contradict each other."

Ok_Insurance_8978

18. "Why'd you leave me on delivered?"

michaeleatsberry

19. "Why can’t you just say what bothers/upsets you straight up, and right there and then? The 'nothing' and silent treatment song and dance is exhausting."

fyacel

20. "Can you say what you truly feel about x, y, z rather than what you believe I may want to hear?"

staringatthecactus

Women, if you'd like to answer these questions, sound off in the comments below!