Family is supposed to be your soft landing, the place you run to, not run from. But let’s be real: sometimes, the very people who should be watching out for you are the ones quietly holding you down. When partiality is accepted as the norm, self-sacrifice is expected, and speaking up feels like betrayal. This kind of family conflict leaves marks, not always visible, but absolutely real. One of our readers recently opened up about growing up in the long shadow of her so-called “golden child” sibling.