Falling in love often feels a lot like falling ill. Your knees may become weak, your cheeks might be flushed, and your brain may feel foggy due to the nerves you’re experiencing. A smile from your crush can make your heart skip a beat, but the jitters might make your mouth drier than the Sahara Desert. However, all of these uncomfortable feelings are worth it to find the love of your life. And someday, the person who once filled you with nervous energy might be the only person on the planet who makes you feel calm.
But sadly, not all love stories last. And you might end up back at square one if your relationship starts fizzling out. Redditors have recently been sharing heartbreaking signs that someone is falling out of love with their partner, so we’ve gathered their thoughts below. We hope that you can’t relate to any of these replies, pandas. But if you can, remember that you deserve to love and be loved!
Honestly man, you just know. The thought of losing them, stops scaring you, I guess... OhReallyReallyNow You can go an entire day without wanting to talk or see them. As if their presence just annoys you. wishmeluck- She brings home a date, and you're most concerned he's going to drink your beer. Deitaphobia When you start counting down the days until your next Netflix binge alone! Little_Tennis6111 ADVERTISEMENT You stop liking how they smell. __porsche__ You both have more snuggle time with your cat. Lord-Lobster Work becomes more fun than home, Home feels like a drag, And you resent your partner for being so damn negative all the time, and denying any issues on their end… I hope he keeps sucking his own life out of himself. greenebeane22 Unconsciously rolling your eyes is a very good sign. mundanetiddy They lie to you about what they are really doing behind your back.. finding out the hidden agenda is a deal breaker.. ComisclyConnected ADVERTISEMENT There's a few common signs: - you never close your eyes anymore when you kiss their lips - there's no tenderness right before in your fingertips - there's no welcome look in your eyes when they reach for you - you're starting to criticize little things they do. Cheddarface (Nervously checks marriage… yep, we’re fine! 😂)
I’m glad y’all got out of your bad relationships. I had to think back to my girlfriend before my wife (25 years ago) for this question. It was exactly as a lot of you said… I started to dislike going home, I made excuses to stay out longer, when I was home I felt annoyed by her presence, etc. I was sad when I broke up with her, but I knew it was the right thing. We both did. We had a good cry together (we were together for almost three years), then went out for pizza and enjoyed each other’s company for the first time in a long time because we were both ready to move on.
My wife now… I called her at work today to tell her what stupid thing our little booger of a puppy did this morning, and we had a good laugh about it. 😀. FalconBurcham ADVERTISEMENT If old conflicts or grievances are surfacing more often and you’re struggling to move past them, it might indicate underlying dissatisfaction, and when you find yourself thinking more about your own needs and desires rather than considering how your partner fits into your life, it might be a sign of growing distance. defnotnatalia When I stopped caring about showing any form of physical intimacy to her or receiving any from her. I stopped hugging , kissing, and cuddling to going days without physically touching her. It wasn’t even a conscious decision, I just couldn’t love her anymore. thevoidthoughts When they become just a roommate. CashnJinx You might be falling out of love if you feel emotionally distant, avoid physical affection, get easily irritated, or prefer spending time alone. If you're fantasizing about being single or struggling to see a future together, it could be a sign the relationship is losing its spark. Serene-Lights- ADVERTISEMENT When you can't believe how long it takes them to tell a simple story from their day at work.
"So, then, Judy, she's the one whose sister's neighbor had that cute cactus statue in her backyard before it was ruined by a trick or treater...or was it a loose dog? No, I'm pretty sure that it was the trick or treater...". CarlSpencer When the affection stops. AppearanceMaximum454 You get bored a lot more often. InterestingOven8976 1. Dreading texts from them.
2. When you’re on vacation without them and you are actually happier not hearing from them. ExfoliatedBalls ADVERTISEMENT You'd rather stay at work than go home. Puzzled-Passenger479 If you ask yourself the question am I falling out of love with my partner, 95% of the time you've got your answer. thingsorfreedom You stop going to bed together. People do it so they can have quiet time to themselves. It can be normal, but it can also be an escape for a person to "catch their breath". Hefty_Peanut2289 You start to feel the "ick" about them. Daring__D You might start feeling indifferent about spending time together, find yourself frequently annoyed by minor things, or realize you’re no longer excited about future plans as a couple. QuietTechStorm2100 ADVERTISEMENT The book I’m reading talks about each partner figuring out how to create more distance versus genuine connection and it felt spot on. julz805 You start to ignore them more. Valentinawowo Indifference. doodle_robot Spending time with them drains your energy instead of gives you energy. Far-Score7411 You understand that living without them would be easier. galDifficult When your heart drops when you hear the garage door opening. alibaba88888 ADVERTISEMENT Ic_puzzle